Star Gifts – Epiphany 2019
This Epiphany Sunday, January 6th, we’ll be trying something new – to us, at least! We’ll be giving out “Star Gifts” during worship, a word for you to mediate on and use for reflection and prayer throughout 2019. The article below from Reformed Worship magazine shares a little more about how these Star Gifts have been used.
“Star Gifts: Words to Ponder All Year Long” by Susan Foster, RW 93
The season after Christmas and before Lent can often seem like a “down” time in the church year—as if we’re simply marking time while waiting for another grand celebration. Whether it is because people are suffering from holiday fatigue or influenced by gloomy winter weather, the season of Epiphany can go by unnoticed and unheralded.
This was the case in our congregation until we introduced the concept of “star gifts.” A star gift is simply a star-shaped piece of brightly colored paper with a word printed on it. Every person who comes to church on Epiphany Sunday receives a star gift and is asked to reflect on that word for the coming year. The people are invited to ponder what significance this word might have in their lives, and how God might be speaking to them through that simple message. We draw from a list of more than 150 words, each with its own message and significance.
The star gifts are passed around to the congregation using the same offering plates that we use later on in worship to gather up the tithes and offerings. As people help themselves to a star gift (without looking—just reach in and grab!), the significance is not lost. In this moment, people are not asked to give; they are invited to receive. It reminds us that this is always the order of things in God’s realm—God always gives first, and then we are invited to respond with our gifts and ourselves.
The wise men who traveled great distances to offer their gifts to the newborn Christ-child were responding to the gift first given to them. They received God’s gift, then offered their gifts to God. As we commemorate the arrival of the wise men and remember their offerings, we delight in this paper reminder that symbolizes God’s generosity in our lives.
Our congregation has discovered that people look forward to this celebration with great anticipation. Over time, this Epiphany tradition has grown in popularity so that Star Gift Sunday (the Sunday closest to the celebration of Epiphany on January 6) now rivals Palm Sunday for attendance and participation.
Why would such a simple gift take on such deep meaning? What is it about receiving a word on a piece of paper that touches people? I believe that people are yearning for tangible, clear signs of God’s presence. Our congregation—like yours, I’m sure—is filled with compassionate people who spend hours baking for sales, cooking meals for shut-ins, writing cards to the sick, providing transportation to the homebound, calling on people in hospitals and nursing homes, praying for those in need, stretching the church budget by giving what they can, and hosting church suppers.
The congregation is good at being busy and “doing” for God. This Epiphany Sunday celebration represents a change in our routine; people are offered the opportunity to “be still” in the presence of God and to receive God’s gifts. This is not because we have done anything to merit such attention, but simply because of God’s abundant generosity. When the congregation arrives, they are prepared to receive something special. As they climb the steps to the sanctuary and settle into their pews, they often compare notes: What word did you receive last year? What did that word tell you during the last twelve months?
Everyone who receives a star gift is encouraged to take it home and hang it up where they are sure to see it every day. It may be on their bathroom mirror, or next to their computer screen. Often when I am visiting in someone’s home I will notice a star gift adorning the refrigerator or posted by the back door where it will be seen as people depart and enter their home. Many people keep their star gifts from year to year; gradually accumulating a virtual constellation of wise words and encouragement displayed as a reminder of God’s presence in our lives.
People allow these words to speak to them. They often start by looking the word up in the dictionary so that they are clear on its meaning; we hear the word grace all the time, but what exactly does it mean? A word that seemed unclear at the beginning may gain new meaning as the year goes on.
Often the words seem very timely, as if they were indeed designated for the recipient. It is this sense of serendipity and wondering how God might be working through this simple process that keeps people engaged. A woman whose husband recently passed away receives the word perseverance; a student off to college turns over her star to read responsibility; our music director receives the word harmony, much to the delight of the choir.
The year that I was scheduled to go on sabbatical, I received this star gift: time. Before I left for my period of study and renewal, I reflected with the congregation on what a gift that was—to receive the gift of time from them and their blessing so that I might rejuvenate my spirit. I entered into that sabbatical with a profound awareness of the grace being afforded.
Another year I drew out a star with the word faith printed on it. My congregation thought that was pretty amusing—their pastor was receiving the gift of faith! Several people joked with me on their way out the door following worship: “I guess you didn’t really need that gift, did you?” “I’m the one who could use more faith, not you, Pastor!” As it turned out, that year was a year to try a minister’s soul. Tragic death was followed by heartbreaking crises. As our congregation was challenged by a series of devastating losses, several people came to my office to pose that perennial question: why does God allow such tragedies to occur?
Often it felt as if my own faith was being put through a wringer. My star gift offered me a context in which to reflect. How could I receive the gift of faith when I needed it most? Months later, when I spoke in a sermon about those dry periods when God seemed distant and my work as pastor and leader was especially daunting, I reminded people of my star gift. Faith, I learned again that year, is always a gift, something to hang on to especially in times of trouble, and never to be taken for granted.
Throughout the year, members of our congregation are encouraged to share some thoughts, either briefly or at length, about their star gifts. Thus it can be that on a bright summer Sunday in the heat of August, we will be reminded of that frigid January Sunday when we were surrounded by candles to bolster the dim winter light. We reflect on the God who continually encourages and strengthens God’s people. Perhaps that is the delight of star gifts—they truly are a gift that keeps on giving, even long after the Epiphany season is over.
Like any other gift, star gifts can either be received with joy or discarded and forgotten. People need to be intentional about their response to their star gift. Will the paper stars be stuffed into a pocket or jammed into the bottom of a purse, never to be considered again? Or will that word be considered an opportunity—a chance to reflect on how God speaks to God’s people? What might we learn from one word? What new ideas might evolve, what treasured wisdom might resurface?
Epiphany is the celebration of God’s presence breaking through to shine as a light in the darkness. Each year our congregation rejoices in the reminder of our generous, giving God—one star gift at a time.
January Worship Calendar
1/6/19 – Epiphany Sunday – Disney and the Gospels: Moana, Sacrament of Holy Communion. 1/13/18 – Baptism of the Lord Sunday – Disney and the Gospels: The Lion King, Renewal of our Baptismal Covenant.
1/20/19 – Second Sunday after the Epiphany – Disney and the Gospels: Frozen, Sacrament of Holy Communion.
1/27/19 – Third Sunday after the Epiphany – Disney and the Gospels: Beauty and the Beast.
Pastor Beth’s Open Hours
Pastor Beth has some “office hours” out in the community each month. Drop by to chat any time, stop in for a word of prayer, or sit and stay for lunch. She’ll be at Oswegatchie Coffee on Wednesday, January 9th from 11am-2pm. Open Hours at Cambray Terrace will be on Wednesday, January 23rd from 11am-2pm. Hope to see you there!
Angel Tree Once again this year the council of ministries sponsored put together our Angel tree program. Thank you to all who contributed to this effort. You were VERY generous this year. Each family received a laundry basket with paper towels, toilet paper, shampoo, laundry and dish soap as well wrapping paper, tags, tape Christmas tags, candy for stockings and jam. Each parent was given a gift. Every child received an outfit and a “fun” gift. We served 5 families and 18 children.
Community Dinners Many thanks to all who helped prepare, serve deliver and clean up during our Christmas Eve Community Dinner. We served over 250 meals.
January Study Join us for a 6 week study beginning on Wednesday, January 16th at 6pm. We’ll be reading together a book called Holy Contradictions that will help us prepare our hearts and spirits as The United Methodist Church prepares to make some decisions around same-sex relationships, LGBTQ inclusion, and the church in February. Come and be part of this prayerful study group.
February Mission Trip
Save the date! We’re heading to Syracuse from February 21-23 (Thursday-Saturday of Winter Break) for our Short-Term mission trip. We’ll visit The ROAD, a new faith community, and help them make sandwiches for hungry people, and cards for the elderly. We’ll hand out lunches, and also spend some time at the Mission Hub at the United Methodist Center. More details coming soon!
Fall 2019 Trip Update Deposit for our trip to the Sight and Sound Theater in Lancaster and the Pennsylvania Amish land is due January 7. If you have not signed up yet and are interested please let the office know immediately. We still have room on the bus. In fact, if we do not fill the bus we will have to cancel the trip. We are offering a payment plan. Deposit of $50 will hold your seat followed by $75 per person due in March, May, June and final payment on August 1st.
Do you have a friend or family member that would like to go? Are you wondering about all the details? Anyone in welcome to join us. There are flyers located outside the office and in the back of the sanctuary or check out the event on Facebook. If you have more questions please contact Tina In the office.
Finance Committee Update We ended 2018 with 75% of our Shared Ministries paid and all our other bills are current. We are confident in our standing for 2019.
The cookie sale was successful with a profit of $330. Thank you to everyone who participated to make this happen. Whether you made goodies or you purchased them, thank you very much. Thank you to Gretchen, Cindy and Pastor Beth for the help with setup, tear down and selling of the goodies.
We are very thankful for the estimate of giving cards that have been received to date. We are also extremely grateful for the Christmas Eve offerings, which this year are supporting the Kiwanis Backpack Program, The ROAD new faith community in Syracuse, and mission projects in Ecuador.
Please keep Vicky in your prayers as she continues to recover from her eye surgery.
The Finance Committee: Jackie Prashaw (Chair), Vicky Reed, Heather Bowman, Stephen Jadlocki, Don Schuessler, Glenda Schuessler, Dan Kingsley, Dayle Burgess, Bob Buddenhagen, Cadie Hockenbary, and Pastor Elizabeth Quick
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